Not Being Chosen Still Hurts — But I Choose Me Now!!
Some lessons don’t shout — they whisper through the quiet moments. April gave me those kinds of lessons. Heavy, silent, but unforgettable. So here’s what I’ve learned and what I’m taking into May — this time, with more heart, more hope, and more me • What April Taught Me: 1.🌫️ Not all hurt is loud. Sometimes the loudest pain comes in silence — in places where you expected support but got distance. 2.🪞 Your worth isn’t up for debate. Just because someone doesn’t see your value doesn’t mean it’s not there. Their silence isn’t your measure. 3.🌱 Growth can happen in the dark. Even in quiet, unnoticed spaces — we grow. Slowly, deeply, meaningfully. 4.🧘♀️ Healing is personal.No one needs to see your progress for it to be real. If you kept going, that’s enough. 5.✨ Being left out doesn’t mean you don’t belong. You’re not defined by where you weren’t invited — you’re defined by how you keep showing up. What May Means to Me Now: 1.🔥 I’m choosing to believe in myself — fully and fiercely. ...